The Second Secret - The Power Of Respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"


The Third Secret - The Power Of Giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.


The Fourth Secret - The Power Of Friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Fifth Secret - The Power Of Touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.


The Sixth Secret - The Power Of Letting Go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."


The Seventh Secret - The Power Of Communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?


The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.


The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

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There was complete pandemonium outside the Jodhpur Court today (August 24), after the news spread that Salman Khan was going back to jail after the Jodhpur court rejected the appeal against his conviction in the Chinkara poaching case. But surprisingly, the Bollywood superstar has missed the hearing, despite orders from a miffed sessions court to surrender immediately.

In jail, it will be the simple life for the superstar where he will be known as Prisoner Number 343 with marked out meal times mostly made up of daal and roti and in a white prison uniform.

"Shocking" verdict

The court had ordered the actor to surrender within seven days, after it rejected the petition by Salman Khan’s lawyers seeking temporary relief. The petition had stated that Salman’s film shooting was underway and that he would surrender as soon as it was over. The petition also had also requested that no arrest warrant be issued.

"The Court had not directed Salman to present today so the court has pronounced his verdict in his absence," Salman's lawyer told media. Interestingly, Salman's counselors had expected the court to pronounce the verdict in the second half of the day, but the verdict being pronounced within 10 minutes proved to be the single-biggest reason Salman did not show up in Jodhpur at all today.

Salman's lawyers S Bajwa told TIMES NOW that the judgement took him by surprise. Salman's other lawyer, Deepesh Mehta, said that the court had not required Salman to be in court, and that Salman would appeal against the verdict in the higher court. The lawyer on behalf of the Bishnoi community - Mahipal Bishnoi - on the other hand said that Salman Khan's absence was no reason why the judgement could not be given, and now he should surrender.

Media circus

As you would expect, there was a media circus at Salman's Bandra residence as news of Salman's impending prison term spread. The family locked the press out refusing to comment on where the superstar might be. At that point, there were a number of theories floating around as to the actor's whereabouts. Some said he was in Hyderabad apparently shooting for his film "Pokhiri" - a Boney Kapoor production - while others said he was in Jaipur ready to go to Jodhpur. Some others said he was in his home in Mumbai.

At around 4:00 pm, sources in the Mumbai police told TIMES NOW that Salman is not at home in Mumbai and that the Jodhpur court had issued arrest warrants against the actor.

At 4:30 pm, the tension was palapable outside Salman's house, as a stunned Bollywood fratenity consoled the family.

But then, at 5:00 pm the mystery, as it were, was suddenly cleared up - in part due to Aditya Panshcoli who was pinned down by reporters after he emerged from Salman's house.

"Salman is at home and he is perfectly OK. He has the fundamental right under the law to be at his home," Panscholi replied defensively when asked why Salman had not surrendered.

Will he surrender

The drama that unfolded outside Salman's Bandra residence seemed straight out of a commercial Bollywood potboiler. After intense speculation over the actor's whereabouts, his lawyer made a statement before the media and confirmed that Salman is not absconding and is in his house.

With the warrants against him out, Salman is now running out of options; he can surrender and chose to spend a few nights in jail, or he can appeal the Jodhpur court verdict in a higher court.

But the big question on every one's mind at this point is: Why has Salman Khan chosen to duck responsibility and stay away from the court on verdict day - and, why is he behaving like a fugitive on the run instead of submitting himself to the will of the law and facing the consequence of his actions?




Salman Khan is surrounded by police personnel on his way to the court in Jodhpur on Saturday, August 25, 2007.


Salman Khan walks out of his residence in Mumbai on August 25, 2007, en route to Jodhpur. Court has issued an arrest warrant for actor Khan after rejecting an appeal against his conviction last year for killing a Chinkara.


Salman Khan embraces his father Saleem Khan as he leaves his residence in Mumbai on August 25, 2007, en route to Jodhpur. Court has issued an arrest warrant for popular actor Khan after rejecting an appeal against his conviction last year for killing a Chinkara.

Courtesy: NDTV News

Blasts rock Hyderabad
R.I.P. Who Lost There Lives.



At least 30 people are feared dead and several others injured in two separate blasts in Hyderabad on Saturday evening.

Eight persons died when an explosion ripped through an auditorium in Lumbini Park in the heart of the city when a laser show was on, police said.

The blast occurred at about 7.45 pm when the laser show had just started. So powerful was the blast that some of bodies were flung into the air and scattered over the area.

In another blast around the same time at Gokul chat bhandar at Kothi area, at least 12 persons were killed and scores were injured.

Hyderabad Police Commissioner Balwinder Singh said the toll at Lumbini Park, overlooking the picturesque Hussain Sagar lake, may go up as it was teeming with week-end crowd.

The police cordoned off the areas and sounded a red alert across the city and conducted searches at railway stations and bus depots.

The profusely bleeding injured were admitted to Osmania Hospital, Mediciti, Gandhi hospital and other hospitals.

Prime Minister Manmohan Singh has condemned the blasts and expressed deep concern.

Police say the blasts were meticulously planned and executed. The state government has appealed to maintain clam and asked people to remain indoors.
Intelligence sources told NDTV that blasts are terrorists attacks. And according to reports explosives were found at three places in the city on Saturday morning.
There was confusion about what exactly had caused the explosion at the eatery after initial report said it was due to a cylinder blast.

However, police suspect that going by the impact and high casualties, it could be triggered by RDX.

The twin blasts came three months after the powerful explosion at Mecca Masjid in May last.

Chief Minister Y S Rajasekhar Reddy held an emergency meeting with top police officials and soon afterwards rushed to the spot. (With PTI Inputs)